Intombazana yaseAsiya iyazi ukuba yindoda ephethe indlu. Yiyo ke loo nto nabathandiweyo ukuba bavuye ngayo yonke imbeko nenyameko. Ewe kunjalo, uyabavumela ukuba basebenzise umzimba wakhe njengoko befuna kwaye bade bangene kwintshontsho yakhe emanzi. Kwaye ngesondo esithambileyo kunye nesimo sengqondo esifudumeleyo kwicala labo - ndicinga ukuba unokuthembela ngalo lonke ixesha.
Andikholelwa! Ndiye ndafunda ngokuphindaphindiweyo kumaphephandaba aseNtshona ukuba ukuziphatha okunjalo kokulawula kwabo kuthathwa njengetyala elibi, umda wecala lolwaphulo-mthetho. Njengomntu ongaphantsi kubangelwa ukubandezeleka okunganyamezelekiyo ngokokuziphatha, okumkhathaza kangangeminyaka emininzi.
Ingqondo yomfana ayithathwa. Walinda ukuba amantombazana abukele imuvi eyoyikisayo aze asondele aze agibele umntu ngamnye ngokutshintshana. Xa uvuka kwaye ubone imaski, wongeza ngokungakhethi imeko yakho yoloyiko. Kwaye oku kwongeza i-twist kwisini, iihomoni ezininzi zikhutshwa, kuquka i-adrenaline. kunokwenzeka ukuba amaqhinga anjalo yena kunye nodadewabo kunye nentombi yakhe baya kuyenza rhoqo.
Lolo hlobo losisi livila wonke ubhuti ebevumela ukuba asebenze amasende. Kwaye lo inokuba wayemqhelile ezi prank kudala. Ubuncinane yiloo nto ngendiyenze. Kuzofuneka ancance avule imilenze phofu kutheni engafuni neyakhe indoda? Lixesha lokuba aprinte iimpundu zakhe, naye, ukuze athandane njengenjakazi esele ikhulile. Okanye usazama ukugcina ubuntombi bakhe ezimpundu kumyeni wakhe.