I-brunette iyazi indlela yokufumana indlela yakhe, kodwa imbali ithule ukuba ingaba ifumene ikhredithi ekugqibeleni. Ewe, kwaye ndiyoyika ukuba kumphathi ayizukuba lusuku lokugqibela lokusebenza ngokunjalo. Ibali alisonjululwanga, kwaye ndinoloyiko lokuba inokuba ibilusuku lokugqibela lomsebenzi lomphathi.
Ngokufanelekileyo ukugweba ngendlela iesile lakhe elithathe ngayo ilungu lesithandwa sakhe, kukhuselekile ukugqiba ukuba i-anal ayiyonto entsha kuye, ngoko akumangalisi ukuba ambethe ngesibindi ngaphandle kokucotha.